How it helps
Use it for a focused task
This guide sorts conversation topics by relationship depth so you can match what you share to how well you actually know someone. It gives you five clear levels, real topic examples for each one, warning signs that you went too fast, and exact phrases that move a talk deeper without making things weird.
Pick your relationship type on the left, then browse topics by depth level. Click any level to see what fits, what to avoid, and how to step up or back down.
Use the quick check at the bottom to pressure-test a topic before you say it out loud. Save notes, copy phrases, or print a reference card for the contexts you face most.



